Realtions or relationships?

Erotica is a human privilege: soul is needed for it. Mechanized Sexuality versus Art Eroticism - this is the biggest challenge in our culture nowadays in the era of portable IT tools, Tinder, VR porn and robotics. How can we find a way back to each other and to the art of love? In addition, how can we make our relationships more emotional and meaningful? What is needed for modern people?